I am approaching 29 shortly, and I totally don’t like it…times flies!
Time seems to be slowing down these past few years once I started working, and nothing too exciting have happened except got engaged. My student talked about the “quarter life crisis” (I’ve never heard of it) with me today, and I think I am in the middle of it for sure. According to Wikipedia, these are some characteristics and I put down a % to show how much I feel true about the statement:
* feeling “not good enough” because one can’t find a job that is at one’s academic/intellectual level – 90%
* frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career – 80%
* confusion of identity – 20%
* insecurity regarding the near future – 40%
* insecurity concerning long-term plans, life goals – 60%
* insecurity regarding present accomplishments – 80%
* re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships – 50%
* disappointment with one’s job – 70%
* nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life – college 80%, high school 0%, elementary school 70%
* tendency to hold stronger opinions – 60%
* boredom with social interactions – 70%
* loss of closeness to high school and college friends – 80%
* financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unanticipatedly high cost of living, etc.) – 30%
* loneliness – 50%
* desire to have children – 0%
* a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you – 70%
Do you have the same feeling about your life?


